- It is important for you to check out who your client is
- For example, by checking to find out whether the client caused problems for another sex worker
- That makes your work safer
- Using Ugly Mugs, you can check to find out whether a client acted badly with another sex worker
Check your client
It is important for you to check out who your client is. That makes your work safer. This is how to do that:
- Google your client’s name. Do the same with the email address and the telephone number
- Check Ugly Mugs to see if your client has behaved badly with a co-worker. Ugly Mugs lists clients who use violence or do other criminal things to sex workers
- Check to see if your client is on a fakers list. This is a list of clients who don't come to appointments or who otherwise misbehave
- Agree that your client phones you before the appointment, preferably by video call. That will give you more certainty about who your client is
- Check out the address you are going to on Google Maps. Did you make an appointment in a hotel, for example? Check whether there is also actually a hotel at the address
- Ask your client to pay part of the money before the appointment. That can be done using a Tikkie, for example. That way, you’ll have the client’s real name. The client will also have your name or your company’s name
- You can also ask for a digital gift voucher for a internet store. These can be sent and received anonymously. Your client will only need your email address, to send you the code of the card
Report violence
Have you experienced violence? Report it to Ugly Mugs. That's a list of dangerous clients. For example, they refused to pay after service. Or they've been violent.
If you report violence to Ugly Mugs, your client will be on that list. Other sex workers can then see that it is dangerous to meet them. That way you protect your colleagues.
Would you like to file a report with the police? Ugly Mugs can help you. Also with finding the right care.
At Ugly Mugs you can enter the email address or telephone number of your client. You will then see whether they are on the list or not. Is your client on the list? Then it's wise not to meet with them.
If a dangerous client changes their number or email address you will not find them on Ugly Mugs.
Ugly Mugs will also send you a warning if there is a dangerous client is active close to you.
Ugly Mugs only lists customers who have done criminal things. Using violence for example. Do you also want to check if your customer does other annoying things? Not coming to an appointment, for example? Then check out a faker list.
Fakers lists
A fakers’ list is a list of clients who previously misbehaved with other sex workers. They didn’t show up for the appointment example. Or misbehaved in other ways.
These are fakers’ lists you can use:
- StopFakers: a Dutch list
- Wieheeftgebeld.nl: a Dutch website, not specially for sex workers, but a lot of fakers are being reported here
- Smuglist: an international list
- Clienteye: an international app
Is your client on a fakers’ list? It’s better not to make an appointment in that case.
Do you need advice or support? Get help
Do you have a problem or question about your work? Or do you need advice or care? You can get help.