- Sex is more than just fucking
- Examples: oral sex, jerking someone off, fingering or giving a massage
- You can also do role playing, S and M or use sex toys
- Are you good at various techniques? If so, you can keep changing your work
- Condoms and lube make your work safer and easier
Types of sex
There are a lot of ways you can have sex. Are you good at various techniques? Then your work is not always the same. Clients pay more for some techniques. S and M, for example.
Fucking
You can have vaginal sex or anal sex. This can involve a penis or a sex toy.
You are at more risk of STIs when fucking than during other types of sex. If you have anal sex, you are at more risk of an STI than when you have vaginal sex.
Blow jobs and eating pussy (oral sex)
Oral sex is when you put your tongue or mouth on the penis or vagina. You can also lick someone's ass using your tongue or mouth. That’s called eating ass or rimming.
Do you have an STI? If you do, you can sometimes still safely give a blow job, eat pussy or rim someone
Jerking someone off or fingering them
Jerking someone off and fingering someone is when your hand touches the penis or vagina. That can make your client or you sexually aroused. Do you have an STI? If you do, you can often still safely jerk someone off and finger them.
Read more about jerking someone off or fingering them
Fisting
In fisting you insert your whole hand into an anus ar a vagina. This can feel good, especially if you are careful while inserting the hand. Do you have an STI? If so, you can often still fist someone else.
Erotic Massage
An erotic massage is a massage using your entire body. Or a massage during which you also touch the penis or vagina. It is also known as a Thai massage, Body-to-Body, B2B, body massage or full body massage.
Do you have an STI? If you do, you can often still safely give a massage
Read more about erotic massages
S AND M
S and M is kinky sex. This involves tying up, whips or latex clothing. Clients usually pay extra for S and M. Do you have an STI? If you do, you can often still participate in S and M
Sex toys
There are a lot of different toys you can use during sex. Sex toys can make your work easier and nicer.
It is important for you to keep your sex toys clean. That will prevent you from getting an STI.
Take an STI test
Are you a sex worker? Then get an STI test twice a year. You can do this at your doctor’s officer or for free at the municipal health service (GGD). Then you will know for sure whether you have an STI. And you will get medicine for it right away.
Safe sex
Condoms
Use a condom during anal and vaginal sex.
Using condoms reduces the risk of STIs. And they prevent you from getting pregnant.
You can also get an STI from eating pussy or giving blow jobs. You can use a condom during oral sex. If you’re going to eat pussy, you can cut open a condom and place it over the vagina
Lube
Lube makes it easier for you to have sex and have it longer. Especially during anal sex. But vaginal sex also feels nicer if you use lube.
You are also at a lower risk of getting an STI. You are less likely to get a minor wound. And the condom will not break as easily.
Preferably, use a lube based on water or silicon. Do not use any products containing oil or Vaseline as lube. These can cause the condom to break.
Get three free hepatitis B vaccinations
You can also catch hepatitis B by having sex. Especially if you don’t use a condom. You can get very sick from it. Get vaccinated for free at the municipal health service (GGD) so that you don’t catch this STI.
