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Erotic Massage

  • An erotic massage is a massage using your entire body. Or a massage during which you also touch the penis or vagina
  • It is also known as a Thai massage, Body-to-Body, B2B, body massage or full body massage 
  • More and more clients want an erotic massage
  • Do you have an STI? If you do, you can often still safely give a massage

How to give a massage

This is how to give an erotic massage:

  • Before you start, ask the client what they want and agree on a price 
  • Use oil or lube to massage someone
  • Start slow, for example by massaging the shoulders and neck
  • Massage more and more parts of the client’s body
  • Let the client feel more and more of your body
  • Also massage the client’s penis or vagina
  • You can slide your entire body across the client’s back. That is exciting for the client and doesn’t entail much risk of STIs
  • Do you massage naked? Then you can charge more

A massage is done primarily with your hands. Does the client want you to use your mouth during the massage? In that case, the client will pay extra for that.

Massaging safely

An erotic massage is safe when it comes to STIs as long as you don’t touch your client’s penis or vagina. Not with your vagina or penis and not with your hands. 

Does your vagina or penis touch the client’s vagina or penis? In that case, you can get an STI.

Do your hands touch the client’s penis or vagina? Then you can get some STIs. Genital warts or herpes, for example. This is only possible if you touch your own vagina, penis or anus with your hand afterwards. Wash your hands immediately when you’re done with the massage.

Read more about STI

Massage oil or lube

Are you going to fuck after the erotic massage? Make sure you have removed all the massage oil from your body. Massage oil can cause condoms to break. 

Don’t you have time to clean up? Or do you not want to have to worry during the sex? In that case, use a lube based on water or silicon for the massage. That will not break the condom.

Read more about lube

Question about erotic massages?

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    You will get reliable advice about an STI test and safe sex.

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